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Update on my wife -Chapter 2

Posted: Fri Jun 04, 2010 1:15 pm
by Tom Phillips
Our dearest friends -

Our deepest apologies for not keeping you updated after Kathy’s surgery, however I had no web access for the unexpected, extended stay at the hospital.

Sunday after her surgery on Thursday the 20th, about 3:40 AM, I was called by the PCU nurse saying that Kathy was “somewhat anxious”. I arrived about 20 minutes later and found 13 people in her room. Her anxiety had turned to panic and that in turn caused her to hyperventilate, multiplying her respiratory distress. By 4:10 she was in ICU, had a vent tube down her throat to her lungs, a NG tube in nose and down to her stomach, 3 IV’s, restrained and wired to 6 different monitors. Fortunately, by the Grace of God, she was in the right place with the right people to save her life, for which I will be forever grateful.

It wasn’t until Tuesday I was able to understand why Kathy was so agitated and panicked. She was so sedated, she did not know what was going on with her and why all these tubes, restraints and wires were attached to her. After talking to her surgeon and the head of ICU, Wednesday, after they raised her pain level to 9 or 10, she became lucid enough to understand where she was and why, we brought her pain level back down to a 5 or so. 18 hours later, the vent tube came out, 12 hours after that, the NG tube was removed, 16 hours later they removed the chest drain tube and the catheter and 4 hours later were able to move her to PCU again.

Her doctors visited her every day and on Tuesday came with some incredible news; Surgery was a success. The surgery had removed ALL the cancerous cells, there were no cancer cells in any of the surrounding lymph nodes or tissues and she will not need to go through any chemo or radiation.

Kathy came home on Wednesday late evening, after 14 days in the hospital, with a great mental attitude, knowing that her 2 to 3 month road to recovery will be fraught with some pain and anxiety. She also knows that perseverance, prayer and the prayers of all our friends and family, she will overcome all obstacles for a full recovery.

We cannot express out heartfelt gratitude to all of you for your prayers and thoughts during Kathy’s trials, knowing that they helped her get through this ordeal. We have been so blessed with friends that truly care.

And to those who have donated to my grand-daughter's Avon's Walk against Breast Cancer, thank you. For those who wish to, here is a link to Mandy's Avon page
http://tinyurl.com/AmandaWoldWalk

All our love

Kathy and Tom

Re: Update on my wife -Chapter 2

Posted: Fri Jun 04, 2010 2:02 pm
by Bob Beamesderfer
Great news, Tom! :thumbup:

Re: Update on my wife -Chapter 2

Posted: Fri Jun 04, 2010 2:06 pm
by Sebastian Rios
That's great news! Well wishes for the future! :D

Re: Update on my wife -Chapter 2

Posted: Fri Jun 04, 2010 2:30 pm
by Mako Koiwai
Thanks for making it easy to donate via Mandy's Avon's Walk against Breast Cancer page link. :thumbup:

Karen & Mako ....

Re: Update on my wife -Chapter 2

Posted: Fri Jun 04, 2010 3:39 pm
by Tom Berry
Thanks for the update Tom.
Super glad to hear that things went well.
Tom

Re: Update on my wife -Chapter 2

Posted: Fri Jun 04, 2010 3:52 pm
by George Schilling
Great news Tom. Give Kathy our best wishes. :thumbup:

Re: Update on my wife -Chapter 2

Posted: Fri Jun 04, 2010 3:53 pm
by Henry Bjoin
Wonderful news Tom!

Re: Update on my wife -Chapter 2

Posted: Fri Jun 04, 2010 6:21 pm
by Mark DeShon
Awesome news! Glad to hear it! :thumbup:
Mark D.

Re: Update on my wife -Chapter 2

Posted: Sat Jun 05, 2010 12:06 am
by Kathy Teulie
Tom,

I am so glad that her surgery went well. I hope she feels better soon. That sounded like a very scary time.

Kathy

Re: Update on my wife -Chapter 2

Posted: Sun Jun 06, 2010 9:35 pm
by Q V
That's awesome news Tom! I hope everything continues to go well for you both.

Re: Update on my wife -Chapter 2

Posted: Sun Jun 06, 2010 9:49 pm
by Rick Brown
Really great to hear things have turned out so successful! You are both in my thoughts.

Re: Update on my wife -Chapter 2

Posted: Wed Jun 09, 2010 9:21 pm
by Arthur Grant
Tom, is Kathy getting more comfortable now that she is home? Hopefully the pain is subsiding? How are you holding up?

Re: Update on my wife -Chapter 2

Posted: Sun Jun 13, 2010 7:12 pm
by Renee Angel
Tom:

Glad to hear that Kathy is doing better. If you ever need anything, you know where to find me. Give my best to Kathy.

Renee

Re: Update on my wife -Chapter 2

Posted: Mon Jun 14, 2010 5:46 pm
by Steve Abbott
That's great news Tom. Our prayers are with you guys.

Steve A.

Re: Update on my wife -Chapter 2

Posted: Wed Jul 21, 2010 9:02 pm
by Arthur Grant
Team call me a worry wart, I don't know Tom and Kathy well, but they seem like really great people. Tom has been very kind and helpful to me. I haven't heard from him since the last event with No$ at Fontana. I have sent a couple of e-mails with no respone. My hope is that Kathy is recovering well and Tom is hanging in there. Anyone know?

Tom & Kathy your in our thoughts and prayers.

Art

Re: Update on my wife -Chapter 2

Posted: Thu Jul 22, 2010 5:06 pm
by Sebastian Rios
I just happened to pass Tom on my way back to work after lunch today, so I know he is around town. Only waved, I don't think he recognized me.